{"id":8141,"date":"2026-04-26T10:56:35","date_gmt":"2026-04-26T09:56:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pe-ts.fun\/?p=8141"},"modified":"2026-04-26T10:56:35","modified_gmt":"2026-04-26T09:56:35","slug":"when-her-soul-cat-died-she-was-bereft-now-she-designs-memorial-jewelry-to-help-others-with-pet-loss","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pe-ts.fun\/?p=8141","title":{"rendered":"When her \u2018soul cat\u2019 died, she was bereft. Now she designs memorial jewelry to help others with pet loss"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div data-article-body=\"true\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In 2010, Katie Teixeira adopted a kitten found all alone in an abandoned house. The kitten \u2013 so tiny she fit in the palm of Teixeira\u2019s hand \u2013 needed to be bottle-fed every few hours. For weeks, Teixeira set her alarm for middle-of-the-night feedings and drove home on her lunch break to care for the kitten she named Milo. As the cat grew, so did the connection between them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cWe just bonded,\u201d Teixeira says. \u201cLike mother and daughter.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Eventually, Teixeira and her husband adopted four more cats, but Milo, a tabby with white toes, maintained a special place in Teixeira\u2019s heart. \u201cPeople talk about soul animals,\u201d she says. \u201cMilo was my soul cat.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">When Milo died in 2021, Teixeira was bereft. She wanted a way to commemorate her. While Teixeira, who was working as a procurement analyst for CVS Health at the time, had seen pet memorial jewelry online, keepsakes that sometimes included the animal\u2019s ashes or fur, \u201cit just didn\u2019t speak to me\u201d, she says. \u201cI\u2019ve always been artistic and very crafty. So I was like, let me try doing something myself.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It took a few years for inspiration to strike, but in 2023, Teixeira made a ring using a few of the whiskers Milo had shed while she was alive, crisscrossing them over a shimmering silver resin.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">What happened next, she says, \u201chappened very fast\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">When Teixeira wore the ring to her next volunteer shift at PawsWatch, the cat shelter near her home outside Providence, Rhode Island, she was inundated with requests from people who wanted their own. Soon, Teixeira was making dozens of pieces, which she began posting on her social media accounts. When <a data-yga=\"{\" ylinkelement=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/Cx89wI6RJr8\/?igsh=bTUzdGp4NXVhY2Rj\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:one of her Instagram reels;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">one of her Instagram reels<\/a> went viral, her inbox swelled with questions and requests. So Teixeira took two days off from work and built a website. Just three months after she made her first ring, <a data-yga=\"{\" ylinkelement=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/fallenwhiskersjewelry.com\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Fallen Whiskers;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Fallen Whiskers<\/a> was born.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">For a while, the business was Teixeira\u2019s side hustle, a passion project that filled her nights and weekends and allowed her to support the shelter, where she donates a portion of her proceeds. But then, in 2024, she was laid off from her job of 20 years.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Friends and family encouraged her to make her side hustle a full-time gig.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI remember saying to her, and I know it\u2019s cliche, that when one door closes, another opens up,\u201d says Donna Lilla, the operations manager at PawsWatch. \u201cIt just felt meant to be.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">But Teixeira wasn\u2019t so sure.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI was terrified,\u201d she remembers. Her husband\u2019s work as a heavy equipment operator could sustain the family only for so long. But her startup costs would be minimal; all she needed was a small stockpile of ring and necklace settings, the mica powder she used to create the resin backgrounds \u2013 and the whiskers, teeth and claws of pet owners who put their trust in her. She decided to test the business out, only for a few months.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Two years later, Teixeira fills about 15 orders a week for pieces that sell for $125 to $150. She has more than 100,000 Instagram followers. Her customers speak about her in adoring terms.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cShe\u2019s doing God\u2019s work,\u201d says Rebecca Snyder, a non-profit professional from Westchester county, New York, who remembers the day she lost her cat Emma as \u201cliterally the worst day of my life\u201d. The pain was so overwhelming, the 40-year-old sought grief counseling.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Snyder says the matching teardrop ring and pendant necklace that Teixeira designed, with whiskers laid over a pearlescent green resin that matched the Maine Coon\u2019s eyes, provided tremendous comfort: \u201cI felt like I had done Emma justice by honoring her in such a beautiful way.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Teixeira has incorporated whiskers, ashes, fur, teeth, claw sheaths, reptile skins, horse mane, hedgehog quills, bones and bits of favorite toys and blankets into cufflinks, bracelets, earrings and necklaces. (All materials must be shed naturally or collected after death, she said.) She has made a pendant of lion whiskers for a zookeeper mourning the big cat and another pendant of tiger whiskers for the sanctuary worker who cared for the rescued animal.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Fallen Whiskers is a part of a broader shift in how Americans view their pets. <a data-yga=\"{\" ylinkelement=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.pewresearch.org\/short-reads\/2023\/07\/07\/about-half-us-of-pet-owners-say-their-pets-are-as-much-a-part-of-their-family-as-a-human-member\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:According to the Pew Research Center;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">According to the Pew Research Center<\/a>, 97% of owners consider their animals to be part of the family; more than half say their pet is as much a part of their family as a human member. Also on the rise: the amount of money pet owners are willing to spend on their animals, during their lives and afterwards, including on things like cremation, burial, memorial services and the kinds of bespoke consumer goods Teixeira produces.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Americans <a data-yga=\"{\" ylinkelement=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/americanpetproducts.org\/industry-trends-and-stats?.com\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:spent $157bn;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">spent $157bn<\/a> on their pets in 2025, up from $90bn in 2018, according to the American Pet Products Association.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI\u2019m still kind of wrapping my head around the fact that I am where I am right now,\u201d Teixeira says of being able to earn a living from her passion project. \u201cI guess I\u2019ve made it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">But \u201cmaking it\u201d, she\u2019s learned, is very much a job that never ends.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">When she started out, Teixeira tried to do her own accounting using QuickBooks but soon became overwhelmed. She decided to hire a part-time bookkeeper, the only individual on her payroll besides herself. \u201cIt\u2019s just one thing I don\u2019t have to worry about, and I can focus more on my customers and my orders,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Balancing her books has gotten much trickier in the last year. In April 2025, the Trump administration announced a 10% minimum tariff on almost all <a data-yga=\"{\" ylinkelement=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/instoremag.com\/what-you-need-to-know-about-tariffs-and-how-you-can-deal-with-them\/#:~:text=But%20for%20the%20trade%2C%20tariffs,into%20effect%20on%20April%205\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:jewelry-related imports;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">jewelry-related imports<\/a> (with some countries and products facing much higher rates), a policy that affects Teixeira, who imports materials she can\u2019t source in the US. A shaky market, meanwhile, has pushed investors into assets like precious metals, a trend that has essentially tripled what she pays for silver and gold.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI have to extend that cost on to the customers,\u201d she says. \u201cIt sucks \u2013 period.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">According to the <a data-yga=\"{\" ylinkelement=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jewelers.org\/images\/member-center\/representation\/JA-PositionStatement-Tariffs-2025.pdf\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Jewelers of America;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Jewelers of America<\/a>, an industry group that represents retailers and suppliers, these market shocks \u201cpose a grave threat\u201d to small jewelers like Teixeira, who rely on imported materials and operate on much thinner margins than big box stores. \u201cThe uncertainty of an escalating trade war can \u2026 potentially jeopardize the livelihoods of small retailers who form the backbone of the US jewelry market,\u201d the group said in a position statement.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Teixeira says she is constantly monitoring her material costs, and, \u201cas needed, adjusting on my side\u201d, a time-consuming chore that takes her away from her workbench.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">But according to Teixeira, managing costs isn\u2019t the most difficult part of running Fallen Whiskers \u2013 it\u2019s managing her emotions.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cThe biggest challenge is the emotional weight of the work that I do,\u201d she says. \u201cEvery day, I\u2019m just diving into other people\u2019s grief.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">That\u2019s because Teixeira doesn\u2019t just ask her clients for the fur and ashes they want included in their jewelry. She asks them to tell her the story of their bond with that animal. \u201cAnd I\u2019ve been there,\u201d she says, \u201cso it stirs up a lot of my own grief.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">While not a requirement, Teixeira says learning about the pet is a part of her creative process, as well as her way of helping other people through the pain of losing a companion.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI was high-peak grieving, so writing was therapeutic for me,\u201d says Natacha Hein, a clinical research contract specialist at Children\u2019s hospital in Denver. \u201cShe helped me get over the hump.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Hein stumbled upon Teixeira\u2019s work online when she was looking for a way to memorialize Zazu, the \u201cspicy\u201d tabby that transformed the self-professed dog person into a cat person. \u201cI wanted to feel like he was always around me,\u201d Hein said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The other shops she looked at \u201cdidn\u2019t have that interaction piece. Their content felt scripted. There wasn\u2019t a lot of warmth.\u201d The conversations she had with Teixeira made her feel safe to send the jewelry maker precious, irreplaceable materials like fur and ashes. The day Hein received her ring, a smoky green the color of Zazu\u2019s eyes, \u201cwas emotional as all hell\u201d, she says. \u201cI give Katie so much credit. It is a beautiful thing she is doing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">So far, Teixeira has relied solely on word of mouth and daily posts on Facebook and Instagram to market Fallen Whiskers. Demand is growing, but Teixeira \u2013 who works on one piece at a time \u2013 isn\u2019t in a rush to scale. \u201cI don\u2019t ever want it to feel transactional,\u201d she says. That\u2019s not to say the small-business owner doesn\u2019t have aspirations.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cOne day, I\u2019d like to start my own cat sanctuary,\u201d she says. \u201cThat\u2019s my big, big dream.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In 2010, Katie Teixeira adopted a kitten found all alone in an abandoned house. The kitten \u2013 so tiny she fit in the palm of Teixeira\u2019s hand \u2013 needed to be bottle-fed every few hours. 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