{"id":8385,"date":"2026-05-01T19:09:36","date_gmt":"2026-05-01T18:09:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pe-ts.fun\/?p=8385"},"modified":"2026-05-01T19:09:36","modified_gmt":"2026-05-01T18:09:36","slug":"the-uncomfortable-truth-about-pets-we-pretend-not-to-see","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pe-ts.fun\/?p=8385","title":{"rendered":"The uncomfortable truth about pets we pretend not to see"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div data-article-body=\"true\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Are we expecting pets to behave unnaturally? It\u2019s a fascinating, if slightly uncomfortable, truth. We often love our pets for being animals, yet we spend a significant amount of time trying to train the \u2018animal\u2019 out of them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">As our lives have moved from wide-open rural spaces into dense urban apartments, the gap between what a pet naturally wants to do and what we need them to do has widened into a chasm.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In many ways, modern pet ownership has become a pursuit of \u2018unnatural\u2019 behavior.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"mb-4 text-xl font-bold md:text-2xl\">The Domestication Paradox<\/h2>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">As we all know, domestication is a biological process that has taken thousands of years. It turned wolves into pugs and wildcats into tabby companions. However, domestication is really not the same as a complete genetic overhaul.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"relative mb-4\">\n<div class=\"relative\"><img alt=\"&amp;quot;A dog (pug breed) lies on the top of the couch and looks longingly and attentively out the window of the living room. Interior. Horizontal format, color photograph.&amp;quot;\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"725\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/fGN0CyzRYMiRIlzZSEyRiw--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTcyNTtjZj13ZWJw\/https:\/\/d29szjachogqwa.cloudfront.net\/images\/2026-04\/eaa23abe-9f0e-4281-a87f-1111da51e562\"\/><button aria-label=\"View larger image\" class=\"group absolute bottom-0 size-full\" data-ylk=\"elm:expand;itc:1;sec:image-lightbox;slk:lightbox-open;\"><span class=\"absolute bottom-3 right-3 rounded-full bg-primary p-3 opacity-100 shadow-elevation-3 transition-opacity duration-300 group-hover:block group-hover:opacity-100 md:p-[17px] lg:bottom-6 lg:right-6 lg:bg-primary\/90 lg:p-5 lg:opacity-0 lg:shadow-none\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"24\" height=\"24\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" aria-hidden=\"true\" focusable=\"false\" class=\"flex-none size-4 -scale-x-100 text-primary lg:size-6 [&amp;_path]:fill-current\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M3.1 3.1V11h1.8V6.314l5.392 5.393 1.415-1.414L6.313 4.9H11V3.1zm17.8 17.8V13h-1.8v4.686l-5.393-5.393-1.415 1.414 5.393 5.393H13v1.8z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><dialog aria-label=\"Modal Dialog\" aria-modal=\"true\" class=\"fixed bottom-0 left-0 right-0 top-0 z-4 size-full max-h-none max-w-none bg-primary hidden\"\/><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">A Golden Retriever may be more social than a wolf. However, it still possesses the instinctual drive to track scents, mouth objects, and scavenge.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Let us look at the real problem. We expect these animals to thrive in a world that is designed entirely for human convenience. We live in a society of &#8216;no.&#8217; It means no barking, no digging, no scratching the furniture, and no chasing the squirrel. And certainly no <a data-yga=\"{\" ylinkelement=\"\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.akc.org\/expert-advice\/advice\/why-does-my-dog-sniff-everything\/\" data-i13n=\"cpos:1;pos:1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:sniffing everything;cpos:1;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">sniffing everything<\/a> randomly.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">When a dog barks at a passerby, it is performing a job. One that kept our ancestors safe for millennia. So, when we punish them for it, we are essentially asking them to ignore their own biological alarm system.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"mb-4 text-xl font-bold md:text-2xl\">The Home as a Gilded Cage<\/h2>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">For the modern pet, the home provides reduced sensory stimulation. A cat is a masterpiece of evolution. It is a highly specialized apex predator designed for stealth, climbing, and high-stakes hunting.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"relative mb-4\">\n<div class=\"relative\"><img alt=\"black dog looking out the window through the curtains and observing surroundings\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/xuAug7xyj9RQ1ciPv0WgWw--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTY0MDtjZj13ZWJw\/https:\/\/d29szjachogqwa.cloudfront.net\/images\/2026-04\/86eaffc8-5448-4d50-acdf-122d25faa1d6\"\/><button aria-label=\"View larger image\" class=\"group absolute bottom-0 size-full\" data-ylk=\"elm:expand;itc:1;sec:image-lightbox;slk:lightbox-open;\"><span class=\"absolute bottom-3 right-3 rounded-full bg-primary p-3 opacity-100 shadow-elevation-3 transition-opacity duration-300 group-hover:block group-hover:opacity-100 md:p-[17px] lg:bottom-6 lg:right-6 lg:bg-primary\/90 lg:p-5 lg:opacity-0 lg:shadow-none\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"24\" height=\"24\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" aria-hidden=\"true\" focusable=\"false\" class=\"flex-none size-4 -scale-x-100 text-primary lg:size-6 [&amp;_path]:fill-current\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M3.1 3.1V11h1.8V6.314l5.392 5.393 1.415-1.414L6.313 4.9H11V3.1zm17.8 17.8V13h-1.8v4.686l-5.393-5.393-1.415 1.414 5.393 5.393H13v1.8z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><dialog aria-label=\"Modal Dialog\" aria-modal=\"true\" class=\"fixed bottom-0 left-0 right-0 top-0 z-4 size-full max-h-none max-w-none bg-primary hidden\"\/><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In a modern apartment, that cat may spend its entire life on flat surfaces. It will have zero vertical escape routes and no \u2018prey\u2019 other than a feather on a string once a day.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">We expect cats to be decorative and low-maintenance, ignoring the fact that \u2018boredom\u2019 in a cat often manifests as \u2018behavioral issues\u2019 like shredding curtains or nocturnal yowling.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">These aren&#8217;t \u2018bad\u2019 behaviors; they are desperate attempts to engage with an environment that offers no natural stimulation.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"mb-4 text-xl font-bold md:text-2xl\">The Myth of the \u2018Model Citizen\u2019<\/h2>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Dogs bear the heaviest burden of our unnatural expectations. In the last few decades, we have shifted from seeing dogs as working partners to seeing them as \u2018fur babies\u2019 or social accessories.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">We expect dogs to love every stranger and every other dog they meet at a crowded park. In the wild, unfamiliar animals may be perceived as a threat to resources or safety.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"relative mb-4\">\n<div class=\"relative\"><img alt=\"border collie  dog puppy looking intently at a person, staying focused during training\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"540\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/eN8T0mH9KGbjVtpy2PnH.w--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTU0MDtjZj13ZWJw\/https:\/\/d29szjachogqwa.cloudfront.net\/images\/2026-04\/3e19e22b-eaa5-4e10-b5ac-ff29fd564780\"\/><button aria-label=\"View larger image\" class=\"group absolute bottom-0 size-full\" data-ylk=\"elm:expand;itc:1;sec:image-lightbox;slk:lightbox-open;\"><span class=\"absolute bottom-3 right-3 rounded-full bg-primary p-3 opacity-100 shadow-elevation-3 transition-opacity duration-300 group-hover:block group-hover:opacity-100 md:p-[17px] lg:bottom-6 lg:right-6 lg:bg-primary\/90 lg:p-5 lg:opacity-0 lg:shadow-none\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"24\" height=\"24\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" aria-hidden=\"true\" focusable=\"false\" class=\"flex-none size-4 -scale-x-100 text-primary lg:size-6 [&amp;_path]:fill-current\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M3.1 3.1V11h1.8V6.314l5.392 5.393 1.415-1.414L6.313 4.9H11V3.1zm17.8 17.8V13h-1.8v4.686l-5.393-5.393-1.415 1.414 5.393 5.393H13v1.8z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><dialog aria-label=\"Modal Dialog\" aria-modal=\"true\" class=\"fixed bottom-0 left-0 right-0 top-0 z-4 size-full max-h-none max-w-none bg-primary hidden\"\/><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Humans show love by hugging and face-to-face contact. To a dog, a frontal approach and a wrap around the neck are <a data-yga=\"{\" ylinkelement=\"\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.vetmed.ucdavis.edu\/sites\/g\/files\/dgvnsk491\/files\/inline-files\/The_Truth_About_Aggression__Dominance_dogs.pdf\" data-i13n=\"cpos:2;pos:1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:gestures of dominance;cpos:2;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">gestures of dominance<\/a> or precursors to a fight.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Barking, growling, and whining are how dogs speak. We often punish a growl, which is a dog\u2019s polite way of saying, \u2018I am uncomfortable.\u2019 By suppressing the growl, we don\u2019t fix the discomfort; we simply remove the warning sign, which is how \u2018surprising\u2019 bites happen.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"mb-4 text-xl font-bold md:text-2xl\">The Cost of Convenience<\/h2>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Our desire for a \u2018clean\u2019 and \u2018easy\u2019 pet often leads to labeling normal behavior as problematic. A dog that digs up a flowerbed is often labeled \u2018destructive\u2019 or \u2018spiteful.\u2019 In reality, digging is a cooling mechanism and a way to find prey or hide food. By failing to provide a sandbox or a \u2018legal\u2019 place to dig, we force the dog to choose between their instincts and our rules.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"relative mb-4\">\n<div class=\"relative\"><img alt=\"Faithful dog waits return of his master\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/_y_StvRXJm_1z2XxldG_BA--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTY0MDtjZj13ZWJw\/https:\/\/d29szjachogqwa.cloudfront.net\/images\/2026-04\/a7e7f331-f0df-4c4b-a445-67f7fb67b42f\"\/><button aria-label=\"View larger image\" class=\"group absolute bottom-0 size-full\" data-ylk=\"elm:expand;itc:1;sec:image-lightbox;slk:lightbox-open;\"><span class=\"absolute bottom-3 right-3 rounded-full bg-primary p-3 opacity-100 shadow-elevation-3 transition-opacity duration-300 group-hover:block group-hover:opacity-100 md:p-[17px] lg:bottom-6 lg:right-6 lg:bg-primary\/90 lg:p-5 lg:opacity-0 lg:shadow-none\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"24\" height=\"24\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" aria-hidden=\"true\" focusable=\"false\" class=\"flex-none size-4 -scale-x-100 text-primary lg:size-6 [&amp;_path]:fill-current\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M3.1 3.1V11h1.8V6.314l5.392 5.393 1.415-1.414L6.313 4.9H11V3.1zm17.8 17.8V13h-1.8v4.686l-5.393-5.393-1.415 1.414 5.393 5.393H13v1.8z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><dialog aria-label=\"Modal Dialog\" aria-modal=\"true\" class=\"fixed bottom-0 left-0 right-0 top-0 z-4 size-full max-h-none max-w-none bg-primary hidden\"\/><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">This tension leads to <a data-yga=\"{\" ylinkelement=\"\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/wagwalking.com\/condition\/chronic-stress\" data-i13n=\"cpos:3;pos:1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:chronic stress;cpos:3;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">chronic stress<\/a>. When an animal cannot perform the behaviors it was born to do, its cortisol levels rise. This can manifest as separation anxiety, compulsive licking, or redirected aggression. We then often turn to medication or \u2018correction\u2019 rather than looking at the environment we\u2019ve created.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"mb-4 text-xl font-bold md:text-2xl\">Finding a Middle Ground<\/h2>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The solution isn&#8217;t to let our dogs run wild or our cats hunt the local bird population to extinction. Living in a human society requires boundaries for safety and harmony. However, we must stop viewing natural behaviors as \u2018naughty.\u2019<\/p>\n<figure class=\"relative mb-4\">\n<div class=\"relative\"><img alt=\"Shot of a mature couple spending the day at the beach with their dog\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/i1uClc0Txtd2EytRkBDolA--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTY0MDtjZj13ZWJw\/https:\/\/d29szjachogqwa.cloudfront.net\/images\/2026-04\/14bf34c2-be6d-4fc9-8ed5-2aafce4e83bd\"\/><button aria-label=\"View larger image\" class=\"group absolute bottom-0 size-full\" data-ylk=\"elm:expand;itc:1;sec:image-lightbox;slk:lightbox-open;\"><span class=\"absolute bottom-3 right-3 rounded-full bg-primary p-3 opacity-100 shadow-elevation-3 transition-opacity duration-300 group-hover:block group-hover:opacity-100 md:p-[17px] lg:bottom-6 lg:right-6 lg:bg-primary\/90 lg:p-5 lg:opacity-0 lg:shadow-none\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"24\" height=\"24\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" aria-hidden=\"true\" focusable=\"false\" class=\"flex-none size-4 -scale-x-100 text-primary lg:size-6 [&amp;_path]:fill-current\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M3.1 3.1V11h1.8V6.314l5.392 5.393 1.415-1.414L6.313 4.9H11V3.1zm17.8 17.8V13h-1.8v4.686l-5.393-5.393-1.415 1.414 5.393 5.393H13v1.8z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><dialog aria-label=\"Modal Dialog\" aria-modal=\"true\" class=\"fixed bottom-0 left-0 right-0 top-0 z-4 size-full max-h-none max-w-none bg-primary hidden\"\/><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">True \u2018enrichment\u2019 is about giving a pet a \u2018natural\u2019 outlet for an \u2018unnatural\u2019 world. This means:<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><strong>Decompression Walks:<\/strong> Letting a dog sniff for 30 minutes rather than forcing a \u2018heel\u2019 on a sidewalk.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><strong>Vertical Space:<\/strong> Giving cats \u2018highways\u2019 on walls, providing vertical climbing spaces to mimic climbing trees.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><strong>Nose Work:<\/strong> Allowing pets to use their primary sense (smell) to find food, rather than just eating from a bowl.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"mb-4 text-xl font-bold md:text-2xl\">Conclusion<\/h2>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">We should really let our pets be \u2018themselves\u2019 and stop expecting them to be \u2018smart little humans.&#8217; Give them the \u2018breathing space\u2019 that is necessary for everyone\u2014humans or animals. Train, but suppress their natural instincts excessively.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are we expecting pets to behave unnaturally? It\u2019s a fascinating, if slightly uncomfortable, truth. We often love our pets for being animals, yet we spend a significant amount of time trying to train the \u2018animal\u2019 out of them. As our lives have moved from wide-open rural spaces into dense urban apartments, the gap between what [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8386,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[321,175,812,1551,2502,12847,203,1264,4319,8295,56,13369,5691,8175,78,324,85,1434,1265,1260,67,115,66,13367,9809,863,316,1252,514,1935,2527,13366,9365,13365,13368,1273,557],"class_list":["post-8385","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pets-news","tag-animal","tag-animals","tag-barking","tag-behavior","tag-behaviors","tag-biological","tag-cats","tag-climbing","tag-designed","tag-digging","tag-dogs","tag-domestication","tag-expect","tag-expecting","tag-human","tag-humans","tag-love","tag-means","tag-modern","tag-natural","tag-pe-ts-fun","tag-pets","tag-pets-news","tag-pets-pretend","tag-pretend","tag-social","tag-society","tag-spaces","tag-spend","tag-train","tag-truth","tag-truth-pets","tag-uncomfortable","tag-uncomfortable-truth","tag-unnatural","tag-vertical","tag-world"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pe-ts.fun\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8385","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pe-ts.fun\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pe-ts.fun\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pe-ts.fun\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pe-ts.fun\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8385"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/pe-ts.fun\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8385\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pe-ts.fun\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/8386"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pe-ts.fun\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8385"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pe-ts.fun\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8385"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pe-ts.fun\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8385"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}