It’s no secret that, just like humans, our pets have their favorite spots in the house, and they’re not too happy when someone else takes them! In my family, it’s the same story: my husband and kids each have their go-to spot on the couch for watching TV, and even a preferred chair at the dinner table. And as I’m working right now, our cat is curled up in her usual spot on the chair beside me, keeping me company like always. But if I sat in her chair, that would be a different story!
Ozzy, a Maine Coon cat, was extremely annoyed recently when he found his human sister sitting in his spot, and while he may not have been able to express his annoyance with words, the look on his face says it all!
Ozzy’s mom cracked us up when she said in the caption, “Somebody was not happy about a certain someone being in his spot!” It’s very obvious; he couldn’t even hide his disdain! And when his sister tried to pet him, he made it crystal clear that he was in no mood for it!
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Why Cats Choose Their “Spot” and Don’t Like to Share It
If your cat has a favorite spot in the house, there’s a good reason for it, as explained by Felix Cat Insurance, “Cats, by nature, are territorial beings. This doesn’t mean they’re planning to overthrow your household (though, we wouldn’t put it past them), but rather that their environment plays a pivotal role in their stress levels and overall happiness.”
Cats (and dogs, too) are also creatures of habit, and like sticking to their routines and schedules, including where they choose to lounge. “Cats aren’t just casual loungers; they’re wired to seek out security. “You may not think cats have much to worry about when it comes to personal space concerns, especially if you have a cat who always snuggles up close to you at night,” says cat behavior consultant and best-selling author Pam Johnson Bennett. “Even though your cat may seem like a Velcro kitty, he still wants control over personal space preferences. Overlooking these subtle choices can impact your cat’s happiness and behavior.”
Why does it matter that we respect their boundaries? “Understanding and accommodating your cat’s need for territory, privacy, and stability isn’t just about pampering them (though they deserve it); it’s about acknowledging their natural behaviors and needs for a healthy, stress-free life.” In short, understanding things from their perspective helps strengthen our bonds with our fur babies!
This story was originally reported by PetHelpful on Nov 1, 2025, where it first appeared in the Pet News section. Add PetHelpful as a Preferred Source by clicking here.